This week’s Pen Your Past prompt is about downsizing in midlife and the quiet, practical, sometimes emotional choices we make to simplify life and focus on what really matters now. 👉 Need a little help getting started? Check out the Pen Your Past Starter Kit.
This Week’s Pen Your Past Prompt
What are you letting go of (physically or emotionally) to make room for what matters most now?
Maybe it’s a house that feels like too much.
Maybe it’s stuff you don’t want to pack up again.
Maybe it’s stress, expectations, or the idea that life is supposed to look a certain way by now.
Letting go doesn’t always mean something went wrong. Sometimes it just means you’re choosing differently, more intentionally.
Write about what you’re releasing… and what that choice is giving you in return.
Why Downsizing in Midlife Matters
Midlife has a way of making us pause and question what we actually need.
For years, many of us chased more space, more stuff, and more independence. At some point, though, those things can start to feel heavy instead of helpful.
Sometimes the bravest choice is not adding something new, but choosing less on purpose.
Writing about what you are releasing, and why, helps turn a practical decision into a meaningful one. It captures the values behind the change, not just the details of how it works.
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✨ What are you choosing to let go of, and what are you choosing instead?You do not need to justify it. Just tell your story.
My Life, One Story at a Time
I am moving from a house of more than 2,000 square feet into a space that is about 250 square feet. On paper, that sounds extreme. In real life, it feels right. I am so tired of being surrounded by “stuff”.
I am moving onto my son’s property, into a converted porch space that will serve as an office, bedroom, music room, and craft area. I will be closer to my grandkids, my son and daughter-in-law, and my elderly mom (who also lives there).
Selling my home will allow me to pay off the house my son is buying, eliminate most of my debt, and help my mom officially retire without financial stress. It means fewer bills, more breathing room, and a sense of security for all of us.
Once I move, the money I have been spending on utilities and upkeep can be used more intentionally. The plan is to save toward a future multi-generational home where we will each have our own space while still being together.
This choice is not about sacrifice.
It is about alignment.
I am choosing smaller rooms so I can enjoy bigger dinners.
Less stuff so I can have more time.
Fewer walls so I can be closer to the people I love.
And honestly, it feels like freedom. 💖
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Until Next Time
Sometimes the life we are building does not look impressive from the outside, but it feels peaceful on the inside.
That is how you know you are doing it right.
Not everything you release is a loss. Some things are simply complete.
With Love,
Kari 💚
