One Story at a Time #13: The Lesson I Keep Coming Back To

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Some lessons stick with us for life. This week’s prompt is about the wisdom that keeps echoing in your head — the kind you find yourself repeating when life gets tough. 👉 Need a little structure or support? Check out the Pen Your Past Starter Kit. It’s the easiest way to get started today!

This Week’s Pen Your Past Prompt

What’s a lesson or phrase you keep coming back to?
It might be advice from a parent, a saying from a mentor, or even something you learned through trial and error. Some lessons take root so deeply that they shape the way we see ourselves, our choices, and our resilience.

Why This Story Matters

When we pause to reflect on the wisdom that’s carried us, we see how much it has shaped our story. Writing about the lessons we live by is a way to honor where they came from and to notice the strength they’ve given us along the way.

If You’re Not Sure Where to Begin Writing Your Story…

Try one of these memory sparks:

  • What’s a phrase or motto you hear in your head when life feels hard?
  • Who first said it to you — and what did it mean at the time?
  • How has it helped you navigate midlife challenges?
  • Do you find yourself passing this same lesson on to others?
✨ You don’t have to explain everything.
Just share one story of how it showed up in your life.

My Life, One Story at a Time

My dad and I have never had the closest relationship, but one phrase he always said has stuck with me. “Make it happen.” Simple words, but they sunk in. No one was going to hand me anything. If I wanted something, I had to go after it.

I think that mindset carried me through becoming a single mom at 17 and, later, through earning two master’s degrees. Education was something no one could take away from me. Looking back, I can see how that phrase shaped me into being hyper-independent; sometimes too much so. But it also taught me that I could create a life, step by step, no matter what came my way.

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Until Next Time

Some words stay with us forever. Notice the ones that have carried you and remember, they’re part of your legacy, too.

With Love,
Kari 💚

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